Ai-Ai de las Alas confirms split with husband Jed Salang

For one year and three months, including their wedding Las Vegas last April 3, the general public, her children and actress-comedienne Ai-Ai de las Alas herself believed that she was living a fairy tale. But while acknowledging that there were indeed some happy moments, Ai-Ai admitted in a harrowing interview on “The Buzz” Sunday that life with her husband of one month, Jed Salang, was anything but a bed of roses. Confirming that she separated from Jed last May 2, Ai-Ai characterized their relationship as one marred by his propensity for gambling, infidelity and physical violence — all of which she tried to hide from the public, including her own children. “Itinago ko ‘yung lahat ng pangit kasi alam mo ‘yung gusto kong mabuhay ng parang fairy tale, tulad ng nakikita sa Instagram na masaya kami kasi ‘yun ‘yung gusto kong mangyari sa aming dalawa. ‘Yun ang gusto kong isipin,” the 48-year-old comedienne told Boy Abunda in their one-on-one interview. “Ang gusto ko lang naman ay magkaroon ng kasama sa buhay, meron akong kausap, merong nagmamahal sa akin. Parang nahihiya akong aminin na hindi naman talaga ganun ang nangyari sa amin kasi pinu-proteksyonan ko din si Jed. At ayaw ko ding nakikita ng mga anak ko na nasasaktan ako,” she confessed. Ai-Ai who left the country after her Valentine concert with Psy last February when her relationship with the 27-year old businessman was first reported to be on the rocks later surprised everyone when she suddenly tied the knot with him in Las Vegas. In her interview with Abunda, she later admitted that her fights with Jed were often physical. “Tuwing nag-aaway kami, physical fight, (lumalaban ako) syempre pero malaki naman ang kalaban ko,” she admitted. She said the last straw came on May 2 when Jed wanted them to spend their “monthsary” or monthly anniversary in a hotel-casino against her wishes. “Ayaw kong mag-casino kasi hindi naman healthy para sa kanya ‘yun at hindi rin maganda para sa ‘kin na makikita ako sa casino,” she pointed out. “Sabi ko sa kanya dun na lang kami sa bahay or any other hotel, huwag lang dun kasi may casino. Pero nagalit siya at napunta na naman sa physical fight.” In the midst of all the physical pain that she was enduring from the man who had vowed to be her “loving husband” only a month before, that was when Ai-Ai realized that enough was enough. “Hinahagis ako sa kama, sampalan, bunuan. Nung araw na ‘yun, ang feeling ko nung time na hinila niya ako sa sahig at kinaladkad niya ako, doon ko na-realize na hindi ko na ito kaya,” she confessed, breaking into tears. Adding insult to injury was the fact that she just bought Jed a brand-new car — a Chevrolet Camaro Bumblebee edition as later revealed by “The Buzz” co-host Toni Gonzaga — when the incident took place. “Feeling ko, kabibigay ko pa lang ng dream mo. Binigay ko sa ‘yo ang makakapagpaligaya sa ‘yo. Binigyan ko siya ng kotse eh nung araw na ‘yun kinaladkad mo ko sa sahig, parang pakiramdam ko, ano pa ba ang magagawa mo sa ‘kin habang ako lahat naibigay ko na sa ‘yo?” she wondered. Asked by Abunda what made Jed behave that way that day, she said, “Bakit pinagbibintangan ko daw siya na magsusugal siya? Ako naman, ano naman ang gagawin namin for three days sa isang hotel-casino, hindi ba? Dun nagsimula ‘yung gigil niya sa akin. Kaya kami nagkakasakitan, pag inaambaan ako ni Jed. Pag inaambaan n’ya ako, nanliliit ako.” In addition to the domestic violence and Jed’s alleged gambling problem, Ai Ai also revealed that she had been warned by a former friend of her ex-husband about his plan to leave her to get back together with an ex-girfriend. “May isa siyang friend dati, mga three months pa lang kami. Sinabi niya sa akin na may balak si Jed, na papatulan lang ako ni Jed tapos …” she said before pausing and deciding not to say it. “Pag nagawa na niya ‘yun, iiwanan niya ako at may kakasamahin siyang iba. Yung ex.” Ai-Ai said she had confirmed this information to be true. “Alam ko dahil from the very beginning, ramdam ko naman ‘yun, natatakot ako sa totoo dahil pag nalaman ko ang totoo, sobrang sakit,” she said in admitting her state of denial for much of their relationship. “Na-confirm ko na lahat na totoo ang nararamdaman ko. Siguro, alam ko namang ide-deny nilang lahat. Kahit i-deny nila sa akin, sa buong madla, sa buong mundo, hindi nila pwedeng i-deny sa itaas, alam ni God ang pinagdaanan ko at alam nila kung anong ginawa nila sa akin.” Asked by Abunda if she still loves Jed, Ai Ai said she loved him very much but after what she learned last May, “Napalitan na ‘yun (pagmamahal) ng galit at pagtataka bakit nakayanan niyang gawin sa akin.” The comedienne then broke down again when Abunda asked if she ever felt that Jed loved her back. “Sa lahat ng nalaman ko, tingin ko hindi. Kahit kailan hindi!” she cried. “Parang naramdaman ko, na ito ba ang lalaking mamahalin ko na ginaganito ako?” The rest of the interview saw Ai-Ai apologizing to her children, including daughter Sofia who she said wanted a whole family and eldest son Sancho, who accompanied her to the interview session and later hugged her tight after it was concluded. With regards to divorce proceedings as they were married in the US, Ai-Ai said she was leaving it up to her lawyers to take care of all legal matters. Actress-host Kris Aquino — a close friend of Ai-Ai who was supposed to be the Maid of Honor for her now aborted church wedding with Jed this coming December 8 — earlier revealed in her show that Ai-Ai and Jed had a pre-nuptial agreement protecting Ai Ai’s earnings not only before the marriage but for the rest of the way. News From : http://www.interaksyon.com/entertainment/ai-ai-de-las-alas-confirms-split-with-husband-jed-salang-one-month-after-wedding/

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